[Pa-furry] Looking for someone

[Kyraeus]

Thaaat may just be a content issue.  Probably because I'm straight and 
made it pretty clear in my ad, I never had issues like that.  Then 
again, remember: there's a pretty big majority of bi/gay guys in this 
group as a whole, especially on pounced.  If you're not into that, mark 
it so.  If you are, specify.  There's a good chunk of differences 
between guys/girls of the age range we're looking at here, one of which 
is 90% of the guys are probably looking for 'fun', and a handful are 
looking for something serious and long term (Note: I don't count a lot 
of the 18-20 year olds who 'say' they're looking for long term. maybe 
I'm just showing my age here, but there's a more pronounced tendency so 
far as I've seen towards playing around in the fandom between guys of 
that age range, over guy/girl relationships).

Girls.. well. Most are taken, the few who ARE unattached tend to have 
some issue with long term, or aren't interested (read: not attracted to 
guys).  Not to say there aren't some, but they hide well =^.^= 

Over all, I urge people to go to pounced/etc. thinking 'Hey, I'd like to 
meet some friends', instead of 'Hey, I'm looking for a lifelong mate!'.  
I've kinda noticed that if you take the time to be friends first and 
foremost, it has a habit of ending up better, because you're actually 
spending time getting to know *THEM* instead of being in love with love 
for the first year or two and then realizing 'AUUUUUUGH, I'm married to 
someone I can't stand!!!!'


>
> I was on pounced.org for a while and the only responses I ever got 
> were from guys looking to hook up and 16-18 year old high school 
> students.  The former, while not what I was looking for I could 
> handle, but the later had me so completely creeped out I ended up 
> deleting my account.
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